The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), outlines specific criteria that must be met for a diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). According to the DSM-5, NPD is diagnosed when an individual exhibits five (or more) of the following characteristics , which begin by early adulthood and are present in a variety of contexts. Below is a detailed explanation of each criterion, along with detection approaches and examples to illustrate how they may manifest.
Individuals with NPD often believe they are superior to others and overestimate their abilities, achievements, and importance. They expect to be recognized as exceptional without having accomplishments that justify this perception.
- Observe how they talk about themselves and their achievements. Do they frequently boast or exaggerate their importance? Do they expect special treatment regardless of the situation?
- Engage them in conversations about their role in various settings. Do they seem to have an inflated sense of their contributions or worth?
A person with NPD might insist they deserve a leadership position at work simply because they see themselves as more talented than their colleagues, even if they have not demonstrated the necessary skills or achievements.
Individuals with NPD often have grandiose fantasies about achieving limitless success, power, beauty, or finding the perfect love. These fantasies are often disconnected from reality.
- Ask about their goals and dreams. Are their aspirations based on reality, or do they frequently daydream about achieving unattainable or unrealistic levels of success or admiration?
- Listen for recurring themes in their conversations about future plans. Do these plans often involve idealized scenarios of success or relationships?
A person with NPD might constantly fantasize about becoming a celebrity, imagining themselves being universally adored and admired, despite having no realistic pathway to such a status.
People with NPD often believe they are unique and can only be understood by or should associate with other high-status individuals or institutions. They may think ordinary people are beneath them.
- Pay attention to how they describe their social circles or professional networks. Do they express a strong preference for associating only with those they perceive as successful or important?
- Notice if they dismiss or look down on those they consider ordinary or unremarkable.
A person with NPD might refuse to attend social events unless they are exclusive or attended by influential people, believing that only such environments are worthy of their presence.
Individuals with NPD have an intense need for constant admiration and validation from others. They may feel upset or slighted if they are not the center of attention or if they perceive a lack of appreciation.
- Observe how they react to praise and recognition. Do they seem overly dependent on external validation? Are they excessively sensitive to criticism or lack of attention?
- Assess their behavior in social situations. Do they frequently seek compliments or become distressed if they feel ignored?
A person with NPD might repeatedly bring up their achievements in conversations, fishing for compliments, and become visibly upset if they feel others are not giving them enough attention or admiration.
People with NPD often feel entitled to special treatment or recognition. They expect others to comply with their demands without question and believe they deserve privileges or rewards simply because of who they are.
- Notice their expectations in various situations. Do they demand special treatment or privileges without justification? How do they react when their expectations are not met?
- Watch for a pattern of unreasonable expectations in their relationships or professional life.
A person with NPD might expect to be seated immediately at a busy restaurant without a reservation and become angry or indignant if asked to wait like everyone else.
Individuals with NPD often take advantage of others to achieve their own ends, showing little concern for the well-being or feelings of others. They may see relationships as opportunities for personal gain rather than mutual support.
- Examine how they treat others in relationships or at work. Do they manipulate or use others to get what they want, without considering the impact on the other person?
- Pay attention to their interactions in group settings. Are they quick to take credit for others’ work or use others to advance their own agenda?
A person with NPD might use a friend’s connections to secure a job opportunity, only to discard the friendship once they have achieved their goal, without any regard for the friend's feelings or contributions.
A hallmark of NPD is a lack of empathy, meaning that individuals with the disorder have difficulty recognizing or caring about the feelings, needs, or experiences of others.
- Observe their responses to others’ emotions or needs. Do they seem indifferent or dismissive of other people’s feelings? Are they unable to understand or relate to the experiences of others?
- Ask about their reactions to others’ problems. Do they show little concern or offer advice that reflects a lack of understanding or empathy?
A person with NPD might respond to a friend’s distress over a breakup by saying, “It’s not that big of a deal; you’ll get over it,” without offering any real support or understanding.
Individuals with NPD often feel envious of others who have things they desire, such as success, wealth, or admiration. They may also believe that others are envious of them, regardless of whether this is true.
- Listen for expressions of envy or resentment towards others’ successes. Do they frequently compare themselves to others and feel that others are unfairly better off?
- Notice if they make statements indicating they believe others are jealous of their success or abilities.
A person with NPD might downplay a colleague’s promotion, suggesting that the colleague only got the promotion because of favoritism, while simultaneously believing that others are envious of their own (real or imagined) talents.
People with NPD often display arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes. They may behave in a condescending or disdainful manner, believing they are superior to others.
- Observe their interactions with others. Do they frequently belittle, mock, or talk down to people? Are they quick to dismiss others’ opinions or ideas as inferior?
- Pay attention to their body language and tone of voice. Do they often appear smug, dismissive, or overly confident?
A person with NPD might speak to a service worker in a rude and condescending tone, assuming they are more important and deserve better treatment simply because of who they are.
The diagnostic process typically begins with a comprehensive clinical interview conducted by a mental health professional. This interview may include questions about the individual's personal history, relationships, work or academic performance, and patterns of behavior and thinking.
The clinician will assess the presence of the DSM-5 criteria by asking specific questions related to the individual’s experiences, behaviors, and attitudes. For example, they may ask about the person’s relationships, how they perceive themselves, and how they respond to criticism or failure.
The clinician may observe the individual’s behavior during the interview process, noting any signs of grandiosity, lack of empathy, or entitlement. Body language, tone of voice, and the content of speech can all provide clues about the presence of NPD.
Sometimes, information from people close to the individual, such as family members, friends, or colleagues, may be sought to gain a more comprehensive understanding of the person’s behavior and personality. This can provide additional insights that the individual might not disclose or recognize.
Collateral information can be particularly useful in understanding how the person’s behavior affects their relationships and daily functioning.
In some cases, psychological testing may be used to aid in the diagnosis. These tests can include structured personality assessments or self-report inventories that measure narcissistic traits and other personality features.
Examples of such tests include the Narcissistic Personality Inventory (NPI) or the Millon Clinical Multiaxial Inventory (MCMI), which can help quantify narcissistic traits and provide a clearer picture of the individual’s personality.
NPD can sometimes be confused with other personality disorders or mental health conditions, such as Borderline Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder, or Histrionic Personality Disorder. The clinician will carefully consider these other possibilities and rule them out based on the specific features of the individual’s behavior and experiences.
For example, while both NPD and Antisocial Personality Disorder involve exploitative behavior, individuals with NPD are primarily driven by a need for admiration and validation, whereas those with Antisocial Personality Disorder are more likely to engage in manipulative behavior for personal gain without regard for social norms.
Individuals with NPD often lack insight into their condition and may not recognize that their behavior is problematic. They might not seek help unless they are facing significant life difficulties, such as relationship issues, work problems, or a major loss.
Even when they do seek help, they may be more focused on external factors (e.g., blaming others) than on examining their own behavior.
Le trouble de la personnalité narcissique partage des caractéristiques avec d’autres troubles de la personnalité, ce qui peut rendre le diagnostic difficile. Par exemple, le trouble de la personnalité narcissique et le trouble de la personnalité limite (TPL) peuvent tous deux impliquer des relations instables et une peur de l’abandon, mais les motivations sous-jacentes et les expériences émotionnelles sont différentes.
Cultural factors can influence the expression and perception of narcissistic traits. In some cultures, behaviors associated with NPD might be more accepted or even encouraged, making it more difficult to distinguish between culturally normative behavior and pathological narcissism.
Individuals with NPD may also have other mental health conditions, such as depression, anxiety, or substance use disorders. These comorbid conditions can complicate the diagnostic process and require a comprehensive approach to treatment.
Once diagnosed, the individual may be recommended for treatment, which typically involves psychotherapy. Therapy for NPD is challenging, as individuals with NPD may be resistant to change and may not fully engage in the therapeutic process. However, with a skilled therapist and a tailored approach, some individuals can make meaningful progress in managing their symptoms and improving their relationships and quality of life.
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